. Many people look back years later at their failed marriage, regretting that they were not wise enough to seek the help they needed. Conversely, ongoing marital and family problems can lead to depression. (DSM IV). Many people look back years later at their failed marriage, regretting that they were not wise enough to seek the help they needed. I have been providing treatment for step-families, step-parents, intact families, people going through divorce, sexual problems and parent-child problems for 35 years. We so oftentimes feel if we could just get away from our spouse and find a nice, understanding, loving person, happiness and contentment would be ours for the taking. People can suffer from depression, particularly long standing depression, and not be aware they are depressed because it feels normal to them. You put in the extra time and effort for yourself and for your children. a. Divorce is extremely painful, for parents and for children. Low energy level g. Counseling for divorce mediation and post-divorce child adjustment problems is also available. Counseling for divorce mediation and post-divorce child adjustment problems is also available. You have the satisfaction of always knowing that you gave it your best shot. Conversely, ongoing marital and family problems can lead to depression. Grandparents aren't too thrilled with it either. Sometimes they are right, most of the time they are wrong. Difficulty making decisions or concentrating h. Weight loss or weight gain e. Grandparents aren't too thrilled with it either. You put in the extra time and effort for yourself and for your children. Feelings of guilt or worthlessness. Many people look back years later at their failed marriage, regretting that they were not wise enough to seek the.